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OK, go get one then. By "refuse," I mean "strongly discourage." What will you do with the inaccurate test information?

If there is no trust, then there is no relationship. It will eventually implode. The reason doesn't matter. Perhaps you should find yourself another criminal to date who will understand these issues....

80% in the U.S. It's more like 95% worldwide. Herpes is part of the human genome now. Everyone has it. It's not even an STD, since most people lucky enough to not be born with it get it in childhood...

And humble too!!



You break up with someone you love by realizing that they would be happier with someone else. I don't care how compassionate, thoughtful, and nice you are if you aren't the...

Indeed. My surprise is the surprise that there is so little common ground. It seems you're absolutely right about the relationship types being entire systems of social interaction with differences...

Exes need not be results of an acrimonious breakup. Most of my breakups have simply been the result of realizing that something wasn't working for us. I remain friends with the vast majority of my...

OK, now that I can wrap my head around. Yeah, I definitely don't think of it that way.

I'm really not trying to change anyone's life; I'm just asking. And I don't think I'm making any sort of assessments about anyone else's relationships. What I have said is that blocking off this area...

Are all the details of the past unimportant and to be discussed only on a need-to-know basis, or just the sexual ones? Her long lost friends, for instance?

I honestly don't grok a lot of this....

But why not? Sounds like it could be a fun story. You're even imagining possible details of it. Why not go with the real ones? I'm a bit flabbergasted, actually, that you don't even know the name of...

But that's enabling behavior. Instead of actually dealing with the harsh reality that your expectations are flawed and irrational (and misogynous!), you choose to cut out the reality instead of...

In another thread, a poster has asked what he should do about his girlfriend who is interrogating him about his exes. Although I agree that he needs to stop the cycle of interrogation, I'm perplexed...

It turns out that California is the state with the strictest age of consent law of them all, and that is where all the TV comes from ;)

For the sake of accuracy, I am compelled to point out that only 12 of the 50 states set the age of consent at 18, and all but three of those have close-in-age exceptions. The majority of states set...

If he is masturbating to these sites, it could be simply that they serve as pornography for him. In other words, maybe he knows that porn sites are "fake" and is only sexually stimulated by the same...

They're official if they decide they are. Only the people involved in a relationship get to decide what's official and what isn't. Nobody else gets a vote.



You believe in 1-on-1 relationships....

You are in a polyamorous triad.



More information is required. You want to spend the rest of your life with #1. What about #2? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her too? How do...

Unfortunately, he's a boy, not a man, and probably doesn't know how to do that. I always think that the best approach is the one that considers most closely the other person's feelings as they...

Anyone who plies a woman with drink, touches her without her permission (which you did not get! "shrugging it off" when she is alone at your house under your potential physical control is NOT...

I'm sorry, but this answer is thoughtless, lacks empathy, and propagates stereotypes. The problem is not that he's done with her now that he's had her. Men have feelings too, you know. The problem is...

No, she is not required to look past the things that make you unattractive to her. Without attraction, there can be no relationship.



Quit yer whinin'.



"I thought about having a...

She wanted to get you into bed and you refused her. Whatever your reasons, or however honorable your intentions, you refused her. So of course she is hurt and frustrated. She was making herself...

That'll do it. People want to be with people who are fun to be with. Not people who are insecure and brooding over their exes.

Of all the suggestions so far, I find Gigabitch's suggestion to make yourself his love slave the hottest. The Chocolate and candles and stuff is for you, not him. You've figured out that boys like...

It's not the sex with the friend you should be regretting; it's the getting back together with this douchebag.

He's not allowed to break up with you and expect you not to see other people. That...