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All I can share with you is that heartbreak takes time to wear off. Falling in love is just a mystery. There is not logic to it. And when you are in love, everything seems easy and blissful. A...

I've been there.

For me, the level of hurt is not contigent on who did the 'dumping' but on the character, self-esteem and emotional character of the individual. Some have a 'bleeding heart'...

It takes time. I know it sounds cliche but it is true. Sometime we are so consumed with someone that we loose ourselves. TO be in love is a risk and you have to let your guard down. We all get hurt...

It means he is casual with kissing and what he did with you he will likely do with another girl under the same circumstances. There is alot of context missing in you story so I can only speak to what...

Its not about PICKING, it's about being emotionally drawn or emotionally attracted to those who are not as compatible or do not treat me with respect. I like the outdoors, she likes malls and...

You can't force her to love you but you can woo her with your charm. She may not return. THe other thing is some attractions are based on emotions and physical attraction and the hurt stems from...

Hello Ladies,

I have been involved with ladies who do not possess all the qualities I want but emotionally I find myself tolerating the bad to the point where I am letting myself be humiliated. I...

The question you are asking is why does he behave this way.

While I am not a professional psychologist, I would be confident in saying he is ambivalent towards you. There are things he loves...

Freedom is true love. Let her be free. It hard when you want someone to love you back the way you want and even more difficult because you are emotionally attached to her (infatuation?). Regardless,...

Some of the ladies I have dated recently seem to date several guys at once. THis includes sex. I don't like being in this kind of situation.

I can't change a person so all I ask is what are your...

It seems you want more than he is willing to give at the moment. He is likely occupied with grief and needs time to process unsettled emotions from his divorce. Just give him his space and make your...

I don't know what you said nor how offended she is so it is impossible to give specific advice. But if you want to win her over you can send her flowers, love letters expressing your remorse. Flatter...

Thanks for sharing that refreshing reminder of how relationships should be. That's awesome. My last GF was very jealous and did not trust me. It turned out she was so paranoid she established affairs...

So what did he do to earn your trust enought to be this open? I have never met a woman yet, this open with her entire life when in a relationship. I think I should stop dating women with bones in the...

He sounds hurt and mad about being 'let go'.

I had an exGF who chased me down for three months via email, txt and phone call after I left her. I finally responded and we tried to work it out....

Thanks for the reply. THe fact that you both have passwords to eachothers accounts indicates you have a trusting, close relationship. Congrats! I truely admire and envy you two for finding someone...

Would you go through my phone, mail, emails and wallet if you thought I was lying or having an affair?

Would you mind having someone do the same to you for the same reasons?

Well, i would forget lables for now.What transpired is he broke his commitment of trust to his GF and if he did it with her, he will likely do it again. When I'm single, I see many women cuz its fun...

What do you mean it haunghts you?

If you feel rejected, its normal. To be troubled for three years, points to a self-esteem issue. You must realize that just because she rejected you, you are...

Find out what you want. True commitment in love stands the test of temptation and time. Don't make a commitment you cannot keep or you will likely make enemies every time.

You may be missing him...

Hello ladies,

It is never my intent to be cruel, but some actions are difficult to forgive. Let me know what you think. I want to be fair but betrayal is a line that should never be crossed in a...

Giga has tough love.

I agree. She's no good. I would feel the same way too. Just give it time and do the things you enjoy like sports or something. So long as you think about it, you are living...

Teddy, sounds like we dated similar types of women and handled it the same. I am not in the business of raising adults and prefer someone who understands and accepts responsbility.

My ex, held on...

Thanks azure. I agree, her reaction is certain unconventional but speaks to her upbringing, values, etc. Her mom, from what I was told, was a stripper and dated many many men. Guess the apple did not...

Thanks. I agree. I'm older and more experienced now so though I fell sad at times I know to let it go and not take it personal.