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Dating him for selfish reasons? I just found about this yesterday, that isn't going to sway my decision to stay with someone. It really was more venting than anything last night, but I guess if you...

So I found out a couple of days ago that my ex from a long time ago, the guy who completely and utterly broke my heart, got married. It was not a surprise since when we dated he was apparently not...

'r' is not a word and neither is 'gues'

I don't know this for sure, maybe we can do it, but it will just take lots of compromise and moving.

In agreement with Bulrush, she really does prefer abusive boyfriends. I mean she called him when she got lonely in college, really? after he caused her so many problems?

I think that the only way...

So, I know that this does not really matter but I found out today that my ex got married a couple of months ago. This does not come as a surprise at all.

He was not very nice to me and we had a...

Hi Smackie,

I have been VERY honest with him. I have told him about my expectations on my future, I have told him that I can move to where he lives for maybe another year, but that I will...

Thanks for the advice. I don't know if this will work out, I see that there is lots of work involved in the future, but I feel more comfortable dating someone who treats me nicely. Maybe I think...

First of all, I'm really sorry to hear this and I am very sorry for your hurt feelings, I hope that you can heal in a positive way.

The object of your affection is being controlled by a crazed...

Hey thanks for response guys. To clarify two things:

1. We both speak the same language.
2. He is in my home country, he did not jump countries. I visited where I am from and where he lives.
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TMI, but I'm so sorry that happened to you, maybe it happened for a reason, just try to fix your flatulence problems and then find someone else to date. Good luck:)

I am currently en expat working and living abroad. I am 28 years old. I have been living in this country for two years and I am here for my third and last contract year, which will end next June. I...

I would not be friends with either of them at all. It is coming to the expense if your self-esteem and emotional health being. You have been trying to put your differences aside for years and where...

I know that you came here to vent your feelings and that you are probably still very hurt but, you guys played hte on and of game for eight years, so maybe you should try to move on and find someone...

24-28 years

Why is it that many men like to hang out with attractive women and sometimes only see them for their looks? It seems that they have trouble looking past that. And then would rather go and date the...

She was like wanking with a cheese grater.....Slightly amusing but mostly painful...LOL

Ouch! that hurt only from reading it. Well I am glad that you are out of that now. I have a question, what...

We talked last night and we made things o.k. we are on the same page and I am very happy that I did this. No advances from him. Glad I can move on. Communication really is the key.

Every quote is open to interpretation. What I interpret from this quote is sometimes we hang in bad relationships for a longer period of time because we cannot realize that the other person really...

I think it's a good quote to keep in mind when dating.

What do you think about this quote? :detective

His ex? Don't ever make that mistake. He sucks, just leave it, if he really cares he will come to you. I would just let this rest and get your energies back up.

Smackie9, maybe I am a fool lol....

I am sure you contribute, I mean what exactly what do you need to show a guy that you like him if you are together? I don't want to be down on him coming back early, but it seems to me that he might...

I am really sorry this happened to you. It's hard still loving someone who acts like this. But I think that you need to put some distance between the two of you and then make a decision. What if you...

I am glad that we are on the same page now. I know that I should have waited but it just happened. Even after we got intimate I thought that we could still be friends and do things 'as friends' only....

I am 25. Of course we can be friends but the only problem is that we have already been intimate. So if he does not want anything with me romantically then we cannot be 'involved' in any other ways. I...