"he should break up with me if that's what he wants to do." Are you serious? Shouldn't you take your personal power back and utilize your own personal boundaries and tell him that his behaviour is unacceptable, that he's not ready to have a decent partner like yourself in his life and just break up with him and let him play the field while you do the same? Why are you so keen on keeping a guy that (likely has lied to you about only being in one relationship) claims to be only in one relationship so he jumps right in to jeopardize the very first one? Don't you think that his inexperience, if he actually loved you, he would want to hold onto you and not potentially ruin what you two have? He's got a cheaters mentality after his first relationship?
You are so codependent that you "give him an option" to have other women while you go on what you call a "break" so he can screw and come back to you? Are YOU that desperate for a guy in your life that you have no sense of yourself and you'll do just about anything to keep him including sticking in his life while he experiments with stranger bush? Really? What is SO GOOD about him that you dismiss this? If your friend hadn't of seen his accounts, you'd be cheated on by now and he wouldn't let you know that he was. THAT is the type of man you've just discovered in the mere 7 months you've been in his life.
So: What is missing in you that you're desperate enough to keep going with this chump?
Last edited by Wakeup; 31-10-14 at 02:41 PM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion