My girlfriend and I have known each other for more than three years. We've broken up once only to find each other again. We are living together and i am trying to understand if this is normal. From the time she comes home from work until she takes a few moments to prepare food for her kids she is on facebook. She is texting people (guys or gals) and I have no idea who these people are, She won't tell me anything about who she is communicating with on her phone. She takes her phone everywhere she goes, even to take a bath, shower or use the facilities. However, lately she has been leaving her phone in the same room with me for long periods of time in my belief to see if I am snooping because she appears to do something to it and sets it down and walks away only to return later to just pick it up push a button or something and set it back down. Although tempting, I have re-framed from touching her phone. I am jealous because I have no idea if she is having a relationship with someone through social media or texting. I don't believe she would actually have a physical relationship with someone but I could see some guy setting up an arms length relationship with her as he waits for a change in our circumstances. However, I know it takes two people to even get to that point. She doesn't want to be in the same room with me when she is facebooking and texting so I can go hours without even seeing her even though we live under the same roof. She tells me it's normal these days for people to want some "me time" after work but I don't think my description is something that is normal. I've told her if she wants me to leave to just say so, but she won't. Any advise or feedback?