losing my mind

[maisielou]

ello

ive been dating man for about 13 months now met him on dating site i did date him in 2016 but found out he had a fiance

but he came bck to me 5 months later and we started the affair again

he dont talk about his fiance states it was all lies

fast forward to now i only see him maybe 3 times a month always making excuses to not contact me but when i ask if we over he saying im silly and if course its not

im so torn we have not text in 5 days now said hes ill now

and im silly for loving the guy, hes in 40s fiance in 20s. im 39

he comes does bits for me to my house some diy decorating or gardening or building something than have sex and leaves

he lives with his friend unemployed, and fiance with parents

[madotnw_nihs]

Sorry to hear that your situation has not gotten better. So it should be clear to you that he comes by, does some chores, gets laid and leaves. Please don't hold on to hope that he will leave his finance as he has not shown any intentions of doing so.

[maisielou]

trying find way to leave him but never get chance to talk to him as apparently hes in hospital