Theory on Male Attractiveness

[Ellynn]

Hi

can i add a question to this thread.

i dont want to seem like an idiot but i honestly dont see why my girlfriend chose to go out with me, its not that she CHOSE to go out with me, but she did. in my opinion she is way out of my league and she deserves better.

whats all that about?

Sounds like someone has a self-esteem problem. Hey she did choose to go out with you......I mean if she didn't want to be with you she wouldn't be. No one is holding a gun to her head saying she must be with you. She must like something about you. So appreciate it.....and enjoy every min of it.... Don't question it......just enjoy it.....

[wwefan300]

Well guys let's put it this way. Of course you have your mean guys and your nice guys. I fall in the nice guy category... I kind of suck up but i don't go all like "i'll do anything for you, i'll buy you anything" PSHH that's stupid and i believe that makes guys WEAK.

I don't know if this will count as off topic but i saw this kid. He was a jerk but nice at the same time. Like for example he would make fun of me but he would be kidding... A girl has been liking him for that but yeah like i always say. "It all depends if your simaler to each other"

Yes we can go on and on about how jerks/nice guys are. But what it all comes down to is this. You have to be a challenge but still be the nice guy. Women don't like guys who just spill everything.

1. They wan't a guy whos a little mysterious.
2. Who can compliment on the smallest details(most important)
3. To be in control(like for example your taking her out it's not the other way around)
4.Carry a conversasion with...(it all depends on the girl if she can't carry a convo then that's going to be bad..)

That's how i am alot of times... But yeah im sure us guys get the point lol.

[Airborne]

1. They wan't a guy whos a little mysterious.
2. Who can compliment on the smallest details(most important)
3. To be in control(like for example your taking her out it's not the other way around)
4.Carry a conversasion with...(it all depends on the girl if she can't carry a convo then that's going to be bad..)

That's how i am alot of times... But yeah im sure us guys get the point lol.

3. If only it were that simple!
If she's the one whos trying to take u out to nice places, then that seems to signify that you may well be in control because you are not the one trying to impress her, she is trying to impress you!

4. Silence can be a wonderous thing in my opinion, because it can signify that you are comfortable in eachothers presence, and you do not need words so smooth over any rough edges.

[fear_21]

i just like to say...men are waisting time with how to get more, or better girls...just do it...**** that mysterious, a dominant im the leader shit...confidence is important i think...go there and get her...if she likes you, she likes you, and you got her, if you a little bit smart. nothing will change that...women arent computers u can hack.

[lilwing89]

Cocky to an extent, but I find that reating girls like a queen won't work because they would think they can have you at any time, and besides if that always worked then alot of guys I know wouldn't be single, may be you got lucky with your gf

that was included in the "and girls dont like cocky guys, they like guys that treat them with respect but can also stick up for themselves...they like men who are men!" part.

got lucky my ass! i worked my ass off to get this one!

[lilwing89]

i just like to say...men are waisting time with how to get more, or better girls...just do it...**** that mysterious, a dominant im the leader shit...confidence is important i think...go there and get her...if she likes you, she likes you, and you got her, if you a little bit smart. nothing will change that...women arent computers u can hack.

pretty well put and this says it all for me.