My bf and I moved in together when we were young. He left after 3 years, and later revealed that the large part of his reason was becase he'd like to move to England for a year to work & stay with his dads family, it's his childhood dream. We've been on off a lot since then, each time we split seems because I suffocate him, and we get back together cuz we love eachother. He loves me, but he is having fun going to parties and such, and really doesn't want to be in a relationship when he goes to England. I said I'd wait but he doens't want to do that. He really is a free spirit, but i'm a settling-down type lol. He ALWAYS said 'we'd be so damn perfect if we just met later in life'. I don't want him to resent me later on... I'm just so afraid that if i back off i'll loose him. I'd love to get back together after he comes home from England...
I read somewhere women stick to the ones they love, but men stick to whoever they're with if they happen to be around when they're ready to settle :O!
So yeah, does anyone have any thoughts? Do you think he'd move on and forget me if I let him have his freedom while he's still young? Do you men relate to how my guy feels? Or is this a stupid situation that I shold just let go. Has anyone else been in this situation?