GUYS Would you be pissed about this?!?!

[clintsgirl]

I'm not going to give our whole long story, ive posted on here before hopfully some of you have read them. Here's the question/problem...
My boyfriend needed something from his best friend that lives about 45 mins away. I knew it would make him happy if i went and got it. Mind you they've known each other for 15 yrs. So i drove the 45 mins, he actually owns a small bar so i had to wait when i got there for him to finish whatever he was doing. I went out to his car to get them item, and in doing so he asked if i wanted to run up the street to the grocery store to get a couple things. took about 10 mins. On my way home i started thinking, "he's going to be pissed, i dont think he has a reason too, but he's going to be pissed". I get home, and like i knew it he was pissed, i took to long, what was i doing, on and on... I proceded to tell him i had to wait for him, then went out to his car to get the item. By then he was livid, i was contenplating whether or not to tell him i went to the store with him. Which i know was "a lie" or not telling him. And i also knew what i did was completely innocent. Well i told him, he totally flipped out , how can i get into a car with a male, let alone his best friend and drive around in his home town. He ended up calling me a whore and telling me to leave. So i did. I have never cheated on him nor gave him the idea. He knows this guy, its his friend, i've known him for 3 yrs. He said i was a liar, i didnt come out and tell him the truth, i told it in pieces. One reason he wouldnt give me the chance, while he's screaming. And no he isnt cheating on me, if you have read my previous post, he does nothing, he's laid off and never ever leaves the house, and is addicted to porn. Oh and my favorite part our sex life is crap, beyond crap. once every two months if i'm lucky. Thats the only reason i can think of why he flipped out. He knows we are having extreme problems in the bedroom, so he thinks i'm going to get it else where. My whole thing is, if he thinks that, why doesnt he fix the bedroom issues. I havent cheated, nor would i do it with his best friend. But i dont know how he thinks if this keeps up, things will be okay. Now he is just using this more as an excuse not to have sex. Cause of course he claims something happened. He keeps giving me the evil eye, then he will be nice, then some more evil eye. why do guys do this, when they honestly truely know there girl isnt cheating on them?!?

[Lite]

He has issues and is insecure. He really should get some help for that.

As for calling you a whore and telling you to leave. You seriously need to tell him to go **** himself and to NEVER speak like that to you or any woman ever again. Seriously.

You do not have to tolerate that crap, nor should you tolerate it. From anyone.

Occasionally you'll see me joke about my wife preferring to be called a whore over a slut. The difference is, the word is used in a loving and bedroom manner, not ever in anger.

So, yeah, tell him to go **** himself and you'll go find someone who will tend to your needs, sexual or otherwise.

[NeoSeminole]

you're dating a boy. Find a man.

[MilkyCereal]

Neo and Lite nailed it. If he is not willing to perform his manly duties, then maybe it's time you find someone who will.

[Rollerderby]

why are you with this guy? You went on an errand for him and he bitched you out for it. He is a tool.

[Junket]

There are plenty of other erect penises in the sea.

[Rollerderby]

I just thought about something else: you were afraid to tell him you just went to the store with his friend... as if that's wrong. It's not. Yet, your bf is starting to warp your perceptions of what is normal and acceptable versus what's not, i.e. you being scared to tell him. He was going to be mad at you no matter what. That's how mentally abusive relationships work. They break you down bit by bit until you are totally in their control.

And you don't even have good sex to fall back on as an excuse. what could possibly keep you with this guy?

[Junket]

She's as broken as he is.

[Mish]

Well i told him, he totally flipped out , how can i get into a car with a male, let alone his best friend and drive around in his home town. He ended up calling me a whore and telling me to leave.

OMG! You drove around town in a car with a male?

That's worse than cheating!!!