Girlfriend is craving lesbian sex. What to think?

[Lipp]

The idea of having a threesome with two girls, well i would be able to enjoy that i think, i wouldnt have to shag this other girl, just my own girlfriend. It wouldnt hurt seeing my girlfriend having sex with another girl. But a threesome with another guy being inside my girlfriend, i would never be able to do that, it would ruin the relationship for me. Since that makes me sound like a hypocrite i have always considered all threesome's a no-go and didnt want to share or be shared. A sentiment my girlfriend always said she agreed with.

I reckon that it's way way easier to perceive her being with a guy as a degree of cheating, while doing it with a girl would be seen as more...well,recreational.

So you'd might want to consider re-evaluating your position.

[Troubsey]

I reckon that it's way way easier to perceive her being with a guy as a degree of cheating, while doing it with a girl would be seen as more...well,recreational.

So you'd might want to consider re-evaluating your position.

Did you read that entire section properly? I said i didnt want threesomes at all because of exactly that.

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Anyway, the next day i talked to her about it, and she said the only thing she is craving is giving a girl oral sex or fingering her. I quote: "I only miss playing with a girl's 'lady garden', everything else you already give me more then enough".
She apoligized for acting grumpy and upset the night before. She was already upset with herself for having this craving, and me telling her to just ignore it and dont mention it gave her the silly idea i didnt care much about her dilemma.

Anyway, i helped her talk about it and i told her that id be willing to let her have fun with a girl, under strict limitations. Then we spend some time talking about limitations and worked out the following ground rules:

- We only bring this subject up again if her cravings become serious and consistant. Until then its merely a possibility.
- She will only be allowed to finger or give oral sex to a girl, since thats the only thing she is missing from sex with me.
- I have to be present, nothing goes on without me being there. (might aswell get some enjoyment out of it right? I like lesbian porn haha)
- This friend has to be someone we both trust and feel comfortable with.
- After she is done with the girl, we kick the friend out and she and i will shag eachother silly. The girl just becomes foreplay for our own sex.

Her main cause of being upset with herself is that we both wanted to be 100% exclusive to one another. Her giving oral sex to a girl with me present, and that other girl not doing it back still leaves her completely for me while allowing us both to experience every sexual experience we are craving for....and i get to see how to properly give oral pleasure to a girl hehehe.

She and i both think this is a good compromise we are both happy with.

[misombra]

nothing stops cravings like rules.

[Troubsey]

nothing stops cravings like rules.

Most of the rules she came up with herself btw. I had to get her started on the rules thing but then she started to actually think about how she could be satisfied and still keep feeling like a decent loyal girl.

[misombra]

how old is she? how old are you?

[carl1222]

The rules you have come up with are pretty good ... they sort of follow the usual rules for successful swinging while protecting the relationship.

Make sure you pick more of a bisexual acquaintance you trust rather than choosing a close friend or a lesbian. It will avoid complications.

Carl.

[misombra]

i wonder what my bf would say if i told him i crave sex with two guys at the same time.

[Troubsey]

how old is she? how old are you?

I already answered this question before in this thread. Im 25, she's 19.

[misombra]

yeah. she's in that group of girls who think it's cool and in to be bi.

[Illusional]

...threesome??

raverboy

[Junket]

i wonder what my bf would say if i told him i crave sex with two guys at the same time.

Do you really?

You wouldn't strike me as the type since you don't like to put it in your mouth.

Are they both supposed to cram themselves in the same hole?

Rubbing their long slick willies together?

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

If she's slack enough it's possible

[Charlie Boy II]

^^^^ hahaha whoah!! Jerry! Jerry!

[misombra]

haha sooooooooo funny .

[Raze]

Threesome for the win!