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Thread: Taking too long to cum.....

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    The noise? You mean the wet sounds? LOL
    Does it sound like it hurt?

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    "LOL, he has finished himself infront of me once, definitely up for doing that again trust me."

    Talk to him about that and let him know how it sometimes hurts you when it drags on for too long. Most guys like to finish on the girl as much as in the girl. Unless he's a total dick, he'll at least agree to some kind of compromise.

    Source: I'm a guy.

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    I am one of those guys that takes quite a long time - it can be a bit of an issue - some girls feel as if it is something wrong with them - trust me it isn't, he is probably crazy about you and wants you to know that he enjoys sex with you. Let him know its ok if he doesn't cum every time, and that he is doing a good job of pleasuring you. Putting pressure on him to cum sooner is probably the worst thing you can do. Tell him to avoid masturbating for a week or so - after a while he'll want to jump you, and he'll probably be as passionate as ever between the sheets (and a lot quicker too haha)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    I can close my eyes to block out that stimuli, but it'd be kinda weird for me to have my eyes closed and my hands over my hears humming to myself while I thrust wildly.
    Rofl, there are some images of the mind that make you laugh no matter how gay they are.


    Doggie style and her clawing/squirming get me off faster.

    The best part about long sex is that you get a serious abdominal workout under the right conditions. When I wasn't single I didn't even work my core at the gym, just my legs and my chest/arms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Is he usually the one in control? If so, then he's able to set his pace and hold off for a much longer time.

    Try being more assertive and take to positions that give him less control (like cowgirl)... or do other things to take away his sense of control, like tying him to the bed and having your way with him.

    He might be getting his way much too often and on some level it has lost the appeal for him --- hence why it takes so long for him to cum.

    Give it a try and see what happens.
    thats a very good suggestion

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    just ride the f*** out of him!! fast and hard, over exagerate your sounds a little bit...if that doesnt work, try some "super-head" lol

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    Try this ebook
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    Quote Originally Posted by spiky136 View Post
    Try this ebook
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