My life is slipping away.

[nycguy]

I've been in your shoes dude, and then I made a lot of great friends and it was great, but today I'm somewhat there in that situation again. It's a repetitive cycle when you're young. My advice to you, from personal experience - don't ever have set out and have a mindset to make friends or meet people or find girlfriends, etc.. When you're looking for something like that, and deliberately going out of your way to do make it happen, it never works! But when you're just living your life, doing your thing, life will throw at you what you want/need when you least expect it.

[rateyes]

Maybe you should move when you finish school. You could benefit from living in a bigger city where there is more to do.

Is this feasible?

maybe, im doing accounting, and if i get a good network with the accounting professors, i could probably get a good job anywhere. They are hooked up all over the place(even in other countries).

[rateyes]

I've been in your shoes dude, and then I made a lot of great friends and it was great, but today I'm somewhat there in that situation again. It's a repetitive cycle when you're young. My advice to you, from personal experience - don't ever have set out and have a mindset to make friends or meet people or find girlfriends, etc.. When you're looking for something like that, and deliberately going out of your way to do make it happen, it never works! But when you're just living your life, doing your thing, life will throw at you what you want/need when you least expect it.

ya...ive realized something. im the happiest when im at parties, im not happy when im trying to hide that from people who look down on it. I guess im jsut a smoker and drinker, and my place is at bars and parties. So i guess i need to let life happen there...if im not happy, cancer wont matter.

[nycguy]

ya...ive realized something. im the happiest when im at parties, im not happy when im trying to hide that from people who look down on it. I guess im jsut a smoker and drinker, and my place is at bars and parties. So i guess i need to let life happen there...if im not happy, cancer wont matter.

Wait...I don't follow. I thought you said that you DONT like to party and drink and smoke anymore? Now you're saying that's when you're the happiest?

[rateyes]

Wait...I don't follow. I thought you said that you DONT like to party and drink and smoke anymore? Now you're saying that's when you're the happiest?

ya it is, but i dont like it cuz its not healthy to rely on alcohol and smoking to be happy. But im honestly starting to hate sober girls; I just dont feel like dealing with girls and their shit right now, and nothing else it working for friends.