Self conscious about my hair

[Carmen]

If it bothers you that much I think the best thing is to keep your hair really short or shaved...it'll be less noticeable..also wear baseball caps if you like. They can look pretty sexy sometimes. I like short/shaved hair. I wouldn't worry too much about it...but do cut it short.

[lionwoman]

I'm a female and I understand how you feel. I think if I were a man and started losing my hair, I'd feel the exact same way. I personally am very attracted to men with a full head of hair and would suggest that you look into getting a really good toupee. I don't blame you for not wanting to shave your head. I really hope that you find the right fit for you and that you feel confident again.

[firewired]

Thanks, yeah I'm still going back and forth...I just have it short right now and I'm ok with that. Sometimes I use Toppik and it actually looks pretty good.

I just don't want to shave my head because I like having hair...even though it's not a full head of it

I guess it's like some women have a smaller chest and are self conscious about that. And I....along with most men are attracted to moderate or larger breasts. But for me, it's completely not a deal breaker if a girl has smaller breasts. So I try to equate it to that.

I mean if somebody doesn't want to date me solely because I'm losing my hair...than I really don't take it personally....it's just that person's personal preference.