Big mistake going to strip club -- advice wanted

[Mish]

As soon as I sat down and ordered a drink, out of nowhere a 'dancer' sits down uninvited on my lap. She was acting quite strangely (possibly high), and between somewhat normal conversation would say things in my ear like "what does your wife do to make you cum?".

I honestly was becomming a little agitated and realize now I should have just got up and left. At one point I even said "I need to go because my wife would kill me if she knew I was here." However, she was very aggressive and kept telling me that I had to have a dance with her and I couldn't leave, etc. etc.

In retrospect I recognize how naive this was, but I said OK, one dance, thinking that I could do that and then just get the heck out of the place.

As soon as we went into the 'private area', things went from bad to worse. She was incredibly aggressive, including starting to unbutton my shirt and trying to kiss me. I was very uncomfortable and made that clear -- looking back, I think that just made her more agitated.

Wow, you were quite a victim weren't you? I've been to strip clubs before and I've never encountered such "brutal" strippers that couldn't be resisted with a simple 'No'.

Anyway what's done is done, you best bet is to say nothing and pray nothing will come out of it. If she does start blackmailing you then you should probably tell your wife the truth and hope for forgiveness.

[bluesummer]

I proposed my bf to go together once to a strip club I'm curious how it looks like there heheh But we will go to a nice one tho, it's not worth to pay for some dirrty and slutty one.

I went with my ex a couple of times, for the cheap food. He went for the ass. I didn't care too much, I drank for free all night long....I think every guy in the place sent a drink to my table.

Then the waitresses, who apparently also stripped on the side, tried to get me to come up and join them at the end of the night. It was weird.

[Petit Papillon]

I went with my ex a couple of times, for the cheap food. He went for the ass. I didn't care too much, I drank for free all night long....I think every guy in the place sent a drink to my table.

Then the waitresses, who apparently also stripped on the side, tried to get me to come up and join them at the end of the night. It was weird.

Hehe I didn't know You're that kind of woman who goes with her bf to a strip club. You're surprising me hehe.

[bluesummer]

I have my dirty little secrets.

[Petit Papillon]

So I won't ask, I'm not good at keeping secrets

[Illusional]

hrmm... your story sounds a little far fetched.... true, there are strippers that probably would do this kinda bullshit... but you know that you wanted to indulge a little in the stripper... if you hadn't, then you wouldn't have ended up in the back room.

anyhow, why worry.. i highly doubt that anything more is to follow.

raverboy

[Charlie Boy II]

haha, great story! I love stripper stories.

[Lulu]

If you told your wife (and since you don't intend to do it again) it would only be to relieve YOUR conscious- something like this is better off left unknown- you aren't putting her at risk of disease and you are not doing it again- so you should let this eat you up and you alone- leave her out of it or you might not be able to live it down if she feels that strongly about it.

[MVPlaya]

In practical terms, I have considered contacting the club and following up that way, but if the stripper was indeed just bluffing then this might raise the whole thing back up when I should perhaps just let it rest. Besides that, I don't think it is the most 'above-board' industry where customer complaints mean very much.

OK, I have gone on for a long time here, but I hope you can see how distressed I am. Any advice, both practical and 'relationship-based' would be welcome.

What state do you live in? If she kissed you she can get fired for legal reasons. Of course, then she will absolutely go after you, and your wife will hear about it, but just letting you know that if you need payback at some point, the law is 100% on your side (assuming you don't live in Nevada).

[cowboydaddy]

R U Gay? You can't truly become an adult male with out going to a strip club on your 21st birthday. It's like those Indian and African American tribal things where you have to complete certain things to become an adult, here in America, you have to go to a strip club!! (P.S. THIS IS IN NO WAY MENT TO BE A RACIAL COMMENT TOWARDS INDIANS OR AFRICAN AMERICANS!!!!)

[Asip4u]

R U Gay? You can't truly become an adult male with out going to a strip club on your 21st birthday. It's like those Indian and African American tribal things where you have to complete certain things to become an adult, here in America, you have to go to a strip club!! (P.S. THIS IS IN NO WAY MENT TO BE A RACIAL COMMENT TOWARDS INDIANS OR AFRICAN AMERICANS!!!!)

Umm..Gay people go to a strip club too, what's your point? Also you're way off by saying that it's like a must for every male. People have preferences in what they like and not every guy is into the whole strip club thing.

[Petit Papillon]

R U Gay? You can't truly become an adult male with out going to a strip club on your 21st birthday. It's like those Indian and African American tribal things where you have to complete certain things to become an adult, here in America, you have to go to a strip club!! (P.S. THIS IS IN NO WAY MENT TO BE A RACIAL COMMENT TOWARDS INDIANS OR AFRICAN AMERICANS!!!!)

R U Stupid? You can't truly become an adult male while being stupid on Your 21st birthday.It's like those Indian and African American tribal things where you have to avoid certain things to become an adult,here on Earth , you have to avoid being stupid!! (P.S. THIS IS IN NO WAY MENT TO BE INSULTING COMMENT TOWARDS STUPID PEOPLE!!!!!)

[Doc Durian]

Did this happen in Bolivia?

And what kind of a woman tells her husband that he "can't" ever do something, like go to a strip club???

What about if the shoe was on the other foot and there was a hens night out with a Chippendale or Manpower gig?

I reckon this fellow needs to put both of these women in their place.

Stripping is just like biology class except the frogs do it themselves.

It's beautiful science.

[QuietLady]

You could have called the manager or bouncer and told them what had happened. I'm sure they would have dealt with the trollop immediately.