I am wondering if it is true that a guy loses interes in you once he has "caught you," like when he knows that you really like him and are sort of "his."
The reason I am asking this question is because like I mentioned in my previous thread, I was seeing this guy for a while and it was sort of long distance, and the last time he came here to see me. I was really excited and started spending a lot of time at his place including sleeping over at his place. I would leave some of my stuff at his place, and then the next morning he would go to work and then I woke up later and went to work too. I guess I became much more available for him with my time. I also became more sexual with him during this time. However, we had known each other for about 4 months before this, but he wasnt a big talker and wouldnt really express much with me. We had a sort of immature relationship I would say, like we wouldnt really talk about serious things like values, or goals, or beliefs.
I noticed however that during the time when I was sleeping over at his house and being very enthusiastic to see him, he was giving me strange looks, like sort of taking me for granted, or thinking that I am clingy.Also, after that time, he didnt contact me much for 2 weeks, which kinda freaked me out. (He was however really excited to see me after the two weeks and we hung out).
Am I overanalyzing this, or is it true that once a girl really likes you, and starts to spend a lot of time with you, and is very eager to spend lots of time with you, you might consider this clingy? And is this a big turnoff for men?
Do you think I turned him off/scared him off by being too available for him with my time and being very eager to see him?
Thanks!