How TO Make Him Want you?

[secret12]

i ont want to break up with him! and im asking how to make him want you in not just a sexual way? like howto get him to want to listen to you and stuff just to make sure going to different schools isnt going to hurt us

[carl1222]

It's likely that your relationship will radically change (or even disintegrate) when you go off to college ... sad fact of life. Just be yourself ... if you both still want each other, you may stay together, but it's an uphill battle for sure.

Carl.

[NBT]

i ont want to break up with him! and im asking how to make him want you in not just a sexual way? like howto get him to want to listen to you and stuff just to make sure going to different schools isnt going to hurt us

That's the point, sweetheart. You CAN'T.

The only thing that might even REMOTELY work is to stop being so OBSESSED with him.

Stop begging him to care, stop always hanging around him (even when HE wants to) stop answering every call, etc.

This guy KNOWS that he has you wrapped around his finger.

And any time you have a problem with him wanting SEX, he gets mad, because he knows you'll give in, to prevent HIM from being mad at YOU.

You can't MAKE him CARE though.

The guy DOESN'T CARE what you have to say.
The guy DOESN'T CARE to listen to you.
The guy DOESN'T CARE to cuddle, hold hands, or even go out with you in PUBLIC.

The guy cares about HAVING SEX WITH YOU when he needs it, and that is IT.

I don't care WHAT HE SAYS, his ACTIONS say it ALL.

HOWEVER....

Even after KNOWING ALL THAT, I bet you STILL want to BE with him. Don't you?

I bet you will ignore EVERYTHING I TYPED because it's a fact that YOU don't want to FACE.


But just remember: Ignoring a fact, DOESN'T make it any less TRUE.

It will not go away.


The only way to POSSIBLY make him want you, is to make him RESPECT you FIRST.

But doing everything he says on command, and BEGGING him to CARE about you is NOT making him respect you.

Begging him to care ANNOYS him, and doing everything he SAYS just makes it easier for him to USE you.

Sad truth. Right ^^ there.

Ignore it if you WANT to, but it is FACT, and it WILL NOT CHANGE.