Best Friend's Girl

[19_James]

To IndiReloaded, it is very easy to judge a person based on a single story. There are reasons why I got into the school I got into. Just trust me on that one. And you are right that this is an emotional situation, I was simply looking for more logic fueled arguments and opinions to my questions. I'm sure there are singular situations in every person's life that could be extrapolated to form a horrible mental image of said person. I, however, have chosen to be completely honest, albeit anonymous, and seek advice. Your opinions upon my character do not affect me in the slightest.

[19_James]

And I just saw your most recent post. Interesting point. I think I would find out through Kelsey though. Maybe not though, it is certainly something to consider.

[IndiReloaded]

Big deal. I guarantee I went to a better school than you and my terminal degree is the best one can get.

I never did what you did and nor have any of my friends. Education doesn't mean you aren't an asshole. Grow up.

[Gigabitch]

Apparently, your education didn't include the fundamentals of right from wrong.

Of course you don't want to tell Mark. No one in your position would be eager to have that conversation. Many would weasel out of it any way they could (as you seem to be doing). Some would man up and do the right thing. Not the easy thing. The right thing.

James, do you honestly not know that what you're doing is wrong? You want to make the "intelligent" choice. What about the righteous choice?

[19_James]

Wow. Alright man, I actually think this will be my last response to one of your posts. I never claimed education meant I wasn't an asshole, I claimed that there were certain extracurricular things that occurred in my high school life that helped me get into an ivy league school with a not so amazing gpa. Nevertheless, this is completely off topic and not at all what I'm looking for out of this thread. To get back, my current plan of action is to stop hanging out with Kelsey just me and her, and to cut back on the texting and talking. I've been told I'm pretty flirty and charming with girls and I've never had an issue getting girls, so should I be an asshole to Kelsey when I see her in a social setting? I feel like people will recognize that as I'm usually the life of the party and very friendly with everybody. Any input?

[19_James]

I want to make the intelligent choice. The smart choice that includes the most happiness for the greatest number. Morality is relative to me. Righteousness is simply a concept I don't understand. Please relate to me on that level. i apologize if I'm not your average guy.

[IndiReloaded]

No, you tried to pull the education card and got 'owned', as you young ones say.

That's the interesting thing about the internet: never know who might be posting. Anyway, I'm supposed to be writing so back to it. I've posted my opinion and I think you will come around, you just need to process things with a slightly wider scope. As for the rest, listen to Giga and stop trying to be a weasel.

[girl68]

If I had a cocnut and your head, I would knock them together in an attempt to knock some sense, I mean "righteousness" into you.

[Gigabitch]

Okay, well, if you're looking for advice about how to slip through this without getting any on you, I recommend getting some information on Kelsey that is so damning, so awful that she would NEVER tell Mark about the two of you. It shouldn't be too hard. She sounds like a roundheeled slut. You should be able to put together a nice dossier in about a week.

[VincenzoG91]

What I want is to cause the greatest amount of happiness to the greatest amount of people in this situation going forward, or consequently the least amount of pain to the fewest people.

The greatest amount of happiness for the greatest amount of people would be to set Kelsey up with as many willing guys as possible. They will be happy, Kelsey will be happy, and even you will be happy for bringing about so much happiness for others. Maybe Kelsey could charge money and give you a percentage as a commission, so you can both increase your happiness with some money, too. Mark is just one guy, so his feelings are inconsequential compared to the happiness of so many other people. According to your logic, anyway.

[19_James]

Well played, Giga, well played. I agree that would be a great idea, but the thing is, there's nothing. I literally know her life story, I know everything about her, every guy she's ever hooked up with, I've been her best guy friend for two years besides her boyfriend. She really is a great girl, which is one of the reasons I'm so attracted to her. I just can't envision myself blackmailing her. My emotions are blurred right now, so that may change.

[Gigabitch]

By the way, I freakin' LOVE Vincenzo.

Well played, Giga, well played. I agree that would be a great idea, but the thing is, there's nothing. I literally know her life story, I know everything about her, every guy she's ever hooked up with, I've been her best guy friend for two years besides her boyfriend. She really is a great girl, which is one of the reasons I'm so attracted to her. I just can't envision myself blackmailing her. My emotions are blurred right now, so that may change.

Those aren't your emotions. They're your testicles. Silly James.

[IndiReloaded]

I want to make the intelligent choice. The smart choice that includes the most happiness for the greatest number. Morality is relative to me. Righteousness is simply a concept I don't understand. Please relate to me on that level. i apologize if I'm not your average guy.

You are completely average, IMO. That's the hilarious part. You want to imagine you are special. But the special guy would have walked away from the situation you found yourself in. You have no more self-control than the rest of the schmucks out there who cheat. Best part is, you'll do it again so long as you keep your attitude about it. Don't you think what you did was wrong?? Don't you feel like a total chode? Don't you want to make amends? You completely ignored Giga's questions on this.

If you don't believe me about you being common, just do a search for your situation. Yes, your problem is common as dirt and old as the hills.

(we should really make that a sticky, Gig)

Well played, Giga, well played.

Oh brother^. LOL.

[19_James]

Vincenzo, she isn't a hooker, sorry dude. And like i said, I'm the third guy she's slept with. Sorry man, your argument has a few holes

[Gigabitch]

Heh heh. He said "hole".