When we got together, I was 23 and she was 21. We always had a great time hanging out with friends, and we always had fun going on dates together, like grabbing a bite to eat, or catching a movie. It was still very exciting to go on dates together, because we had to plan to make time to see each other.
So fast forward, things are going great....I moved in with her after we were together for about seven months, and i think that is where things started to take a turn for the worse. She is very busy, with a full-time job, and going to school full-time. I also had a full-time job. Looking back, I realize that we only had certain specific windows of opportunity to have fun together, and that I should have used that time to show her that i enjoyed her company very much. I know now that I missed out on way too many opportunities to spend that time with her, because I was hanging with friends or just taking care of stupid things I could have done any other time. I didn't listen to her when she showed me her schedule (this happened more than once) she would point out the time I had to spend with her on her detailed schedule, and then give me this look like it was my turn to say something. I should have planned to spend that time with her, of course. Anyway, you get the idea, I took her for granted. It was because I wasn't thinking, I guess. It all seems so simple, now- I may have even made her feel that she wasn't exciting to me.
Long story short, she started hanging out with someone else, and then we broke up. I think I should respect her decision, but i love her and I know I would be happy with her for the rest of my life. And I would learn from my mistakes, and grab on to every chance I could to see her. I don't know what to do, because she has a new guy already.
Any help would be appreciated!! I feel like such an idiot, after we broke up , she told me that she just didn't feel the spark anymore. I think that would make sense, since I didn't make an effort to SHOW her the way she makes me feel. Should I give up on her? Did I ruin my chances?