This is getting off the point, I want to know if any other men have the same fetish?
"By this" do you mean my post or the fact that he revealed this to you and now you don't know what to do with it?
If I were him, I would want to hide it becuase I wouldn't want You to worry about me fantasizing about bopping my mother while I did you. If I were You, I'd want him to hide it from me so that I'd not have to come on a forum and ask how to have sex without worrying about him thinking about bopping his mother while he did me.
Now that you know about his kink.. are you a happier person for knowing?
Anyway:I suggest you get as educated as you can about what floats his boat and if you can't get over being resentful or jealous (or whatever emotion you feel when you know he his doing you and thinking about his mother) then you get some counceling of your own so that you get help with coming to terms to the fact that this is how it will be as long as you are a couple.I just need to get over these ill feelings once and for all to better our relationship.
Good luck.
Last edited by Wakeup; 24-09-11 at 06:30 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
according to Sigmund every man develops sexual feelings for his mother between the ages of 3 to 6
How can you respectfully tell someone to go **** themself? My opinion must have hit a nerve. Do you and Mathias both have some weird mommy fetish yourselves? You ever heard of the enema fetish have for squirting enemas into each others mouths? I guess that and many other sick fetishes I could list is perfectly heatlthy too?
You posted info about your dude with a weird fetish. What did you expect, that everyone would shrug their shoulders? It's not my fault your dude thinks about other women like his mom or other moms in general when he's having sex with you.
Yep...it sure did hit a nerve. I despise judgmental pricks like yourself...So you're judgmental and have low reading comprehension ? Like I said, if its between 2 consenting adults....it doesnt matter what you or I think. So, again, Go **** yourself!How can you respectfully tell someone to go **** themself? My opinion must have hit a nerve. Do you and Mathias both have some weird mommy fetish yourselves? You ever heard of the enema fetish have for squirting enemas into each others mouths? I guess that and many other sick fetishes I could list is perfectly heatlthy too?
First off, everything you say to me is no help. And yes when he told me I was relieved and I am a happier person then before. Before I thought our sexual issues were my fault, now I know its something he cant control that is psychological. Makes me feel a hell of a lot better. Mind you I do have issues with him thinking it everytime we make love. That is my only issue with it!
Yes, other men do. That's why the chick in the video your man watches caters to that fetish. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if Mathias and surfphb didn't cater to those fetishes.
I bet you ask that question hoping it's normal. If it's widespread then you might feel there's nothing to fear. Cheating is widespread too. There, you have nothing to fear.
I agree, i think that as long as both people like and are comfortable with the acts that turn them on they should go to it, why should someone else tell you what can make you sexually aroused and what cant, Its not a right and wrong thing, its a preference and choice thing! People shouldnt be so judgemental about these things, who cares if someone likes weird shit, how does it affect anyone else other then the person who chooses to do so?