One night stand with a friend - where to go from now on?

[Leona77]

And yes opinion does change when a girl just sleeps with a guy...call me old fashioned, but it's true you look easy and the majority of guys don't look at you as GF material.

fxdx, re-read this and if this is your opinion,too...just let it go...

[smackie9]

Just say : I don't want things to get awkward between us and I will not be going around talking about it to everyone. I hope we can remain good friends.

[smackie9]

fxdx, re-read this and if this is your opinion,too...just let it go...

I work with a lot of guys....its not just my opinion......

[smackie9]

I didn't say 100% of guys view it this way....reread: I quote the"majority" of guys.....or course there's gonna be a few who do not feel this way.

[Leona77]

I work with a lot of guys....its not just my opinion......

...I was talking to fxdx....

[smackie9]

Dude if this is heavy on your conscience just let her know you don't think any less of her, it was a fun night and you have no regrets, and hope she doesn't either......simple.

[fxdx]

fxdx, re-read this and if this is your opinion,too...just let it go...

My opinion of her is still the same.
So what you guys were saying, is that if I want to remain friends with her, I should leave it as it is and hope that she is not confused about it? Come to think about it, why should she be confused? I just asked her for a dance and later she was the one that was coming closer to me, she kissed me and she took me to the bedroom. I just went with the flow not thinking about tomorrow. And since we were both tipsy, I'm not going to assume anything about what her intentions were or weren't. Also, I'm not too sure what I want... probably just get to know what she feels about it all, make sure that she's okay(get rid of all the awkwardness) and just remain friends. Or just to be sure, how does it sound to ask advice from her best friend(99% sure she knows about what happened) since she would know her a lot better?

[smackie9]

I talked to a buddy of mine and he said that there is no way she is confused about anything, nor is she too shy too handle it. She knew what she was doing, and well it looks like it is what it is, a one night stand. I say just let it go, and if you run into each other, don't treat her any differently as before. If you get a moment alone say your peace and be done with it. My money is on she wants this put this behind her for now, and just carry on.

[fxdx]

As much as I hate admitting that, I guess it's true what you said and I'll just leave it be. Still it'd be great to hear that from her, so there wouldn't be no what ifs, but I realize that it would just make things worse...