I have been in a relationship with a woman now for about nine months. She is very open and honest with me. Too much to be honest with you. I am starting to understand the truth on woman between want a woman wants and what a woman needs. I am still kind of confused. Our sex life is starting to get a little boring to be honest with you. She has expressed simliar ideas but not directly to me. She has told me that her ex boyfriend was wild in bed and I am more husband and wife sex. I do not know what to say. I am speechless. I ask her to tell me what she like and does not like and she tells me nothing as if I need to read her mind. I want to be wild in bed to her, similar to her Ex to turn her on. I feel she loves and wants me but not like she did her ex. I believe she feels there is no challenge in me anymore. I always tell her I love her and want her and how attractive she is to me. She is always telling me I am a bad boy and I am not really. I am actually a decent person. Ladies is a bad boy what she really wants from me and she does not know how to tell me this?