Originally Posted by
Alexa103
...then it happened! and now well he texted me afterwards and even asked to see me again ..but we never did, and now hes totally ignoring me ..
oh and I slept with him about 2nd half weeeks ago .. :/
It's possible he thought that your initial lack of interest was some kind of reflection on his performance. Guys think a lot about how girls perceive their skills in bed, and when you don't make an effort to see him again after he asked you it'll be interpreted as a bad sign.
Are you wanting to sleep with him again, date him or just be friends? The first one is easy, it just takes a dirty text and hopefully he'll come running. The second one is trickier because you'll have to make sure he knows you want a date and not just looking to hook up again (I'd suggest not sleeping with him after the first date if you want a meaningful relationship). The third you need to have a coffee or something and talk it all over, how you both feel and stuff like that.
"... Tread softly because you tread on my dreams"