We started dating in November, we got engaged in December, everything was perfect right off the hop, she was actually the one that said "I would marry you tomorrow" very early in the relationship, and I was fine with that as I felt instantly connected to her on several levels. Come April, I get the "i'm so busy at work", we start breaking from our regular schedule (We both have kids from previous marriage), we normally split weeks back and forth at one anothers place usually, we started to discuss merging households, but that has since left the radar. Then I start getting "trust" issues from her, when she has known my history all along (infidelity issues in previous relationship). Now, I feel like I am always chasing her for time together. She is 100% faithful, no issues there, but I have the feeling that all of a sudden, reality has set in for her and she has completely changed her mindset on us. I do all the special things for her, make dinner, look after the kids when needed, buy little things as a surprise, I try to spend all my free time with her because I want to be with her more than anything. I get very little emotional response from her, I'm always the expressive one whether its when we discuss things, email...... I just don't understand how things can turn on a dime so quick. I try to talk to her, try to explain to her that I want nothing more than to be with her, raise the kids together, be a couple and most importantly, a family, but I get very little from her, like she just cannot open up with her feelings. Its all becoming very frustrating.....I do all the little things, and I have yet to see any reciprocation to the point where it has become ludicrous why I keep trying, except for the fact that I love her. I just can't figure this mess out.....