This girl is really confusing me.

[nathoonder]

I've been sorta dating this girl for six months right. I've spent nearly one thousand dollars on her given her all sorts of time and attention and she's strung me along without making me her boyfriend. So I haven't been seeing anyone else but her this whole time. I JUST went on a date with another girl last night and NOW the original girl after six months FINALLY "liked" the pictures of me on facebook...Is this like her weird way of trying to get me to go back to her (which I would totally do) or is she just messing with my head? And how should I approach her about it?

[stev123]

You're retarded, she has you on her leash. She's just gonna keep you on her leash till you realise and man up. Maybe get those balls together and tell her to go get butt****ed, and stop communicating with this whore. While you're at it, try not to spend any money on women let alone thousands, and don't take shit like facebook likes as a sign of deep affection.

[Ariel]

I think you are reading too much into her 'liking' your pictures on Facebook - after six months you should expect a little more than that. Unless she is not telling you how she feels directly I suggest you move on. It does sound like she was stringing you along, perhaps because you were spending all this money on her, perhaps because she was bored and didn't have anybody else on the horizon.

You don't give too many details about the nature of the situation - did you ask to step up the relationship and become more exclusive? Did she refuse to? Or were you waiting for her to indicate this?

[stev123]

And if you want some advice, if you don't **** within the month of knowing them, find someone else.

[nathoonder]

I've never asked to step up the relationship, I was meaning to the last few times we talked but I ended up being too afraid to.

[nathoonder]

I really want to get back with her, would it be a better idea to message her about the likes or just talk about something totally random? If she's liking status and pics I posted weeks ago I feel as if she's obviously trying to get my attention. Part of me feels like saying "Uhm...Couldn't help but notice you liked my status and pics that over a week old, what up with that?" but I don't want to be so confrontational.

[Am I crazy?]

whatever happened to face to face conversation? forget the texts and electronic communication and just talk with her. Why do so many people feel the need to hide behind technology. clueless.

[nathoonder]

whatever happened to face to face conversation? forget the texts and electronic communication and just talk with her. Why do so many people feel the need to hide behind technology. clueless.

You make a very good point, I can't stand facebook. I only made one because she wanted me to. And the only reason I'd like to message her rather than talk to her is because if I want to talk to her face to face, I won't be able to do that until Thursday.

[Am I crazy?]

Then wait till Thursday and just lay off the electronics till then. maybe if you don't message, test or whatever her she will get in touch with you. Good lord I will never understand the workings of the female brain byt one thing I have figured out is they thrive on knowing you are "sweating" over what they are thinking. Don't give in to that and let her do the "sweating" over you.

[Wakeup]

Why don't you just ask her out and if she says "no" then delete her from facebook, delete yourself as well and then concentrate on the girl that you went out on one date with? Don't invite her to do anything expensive with you either, if she actually likes you she won't care if you take her for pizza or a cup of coffee even. Kiss her when the time is right.

You're like Pinnochio and she's like Gheppetto and you let anything she does, pull at your strings ( any crumb she gives you (like "liking" a simple photo) Most women would subconsciously find your milque toasty ways unattractive. Step up or step away.

[Am I crazy?]

one more thing, the success of relationships is not based upon how much you spend on a girl. Lots of girls only see that as you trying to buy your way into her pants. Like wakeup said, lay off the cash and quit trying to impress her with expensive crap. If you have a girl that expects you to spend lots of money, then dump her now because eventually you will run out of money and she will run out on you.

[basilandthyme]

I've been sorta dating this girl for six months right. I've spent nearly one thousand dollars on her given her all sorts of time and attention

^^ really bad idea.

Hope you don't make that mistake again.

[Rudeboyy]

whatever happened to face to face conversation? forget the texts and electronic communication and just talk with her. Why do so many people feel the need to hide behind technology. clueless.

agree!!!!!!!!!!

[NiaPeach]

This reminds me of a facebook debate a while ago. A male friend of mine blogged this also. Hope this helps!

As far as strippers I have dated a few some cheat and some don’t and the majority are messed up in the head, can be violent and depend mostly on their looks. This opinion comes from my experience of dating strippers, models and other very attractive women and talking to my friends that have also done the same or even run strip clubs. And also many strippers have been raped or molested at one time in their life and stripping is their way of taking back their sexual power. (I’m not saying that is the case with all of them but it seems to be a trend.)On the up side Strippers are fun, often generous (the good ones), and hot to look at, outgoing and fun to hang out with, and most but not all are but MOST are generally more sexual and many have good hearts. I have no issue with the job or the industry itself nor do I look down upon it or them and I judge each person individually, but you must also take in account any stereotype becuase stereotypes are formed only when there is a very large percentage of of the group in question that fits the stereotype in the first place. I dated a 10 that was a stripper many years ago and she told me when we broke up “Nico, don’t date strippers, you can’t trust them.” and that was coming from a stripper.
I did not listen as I just stopped dating another stripper that was reliable, did not do drugs or drink did not live the stripper lifestyle (about 10% if that much are like this) and was my best friend, but that’s no longer because she has daddy issues that caused resentment toward men and I got tired of verbal attacks becuase of her issues. Everyone is an individual but certain industries do attract certain kinds of people and personalities. They have a different way that they carry themselves. Strippers and Girls in Porn act differently that a Woman that’s a lawyer, actresses also have their own peculiarities. So in closing All strippers are NOT crazy, cheating, lying, whores…But you can bet there is a fair share of them out there that are crazy, will cheat, and some will have sex for money. So don’t be blinded by their beauty look for their beauty in their actions to show you who they really are!

[nathoonder]

I see a couple similarities between this girl and the one your friend was dating. They both have dad issues (no word on rather there is resentment or not) and this girl has told me she's physically assaulted her last two boyfriends, which I don't really care, she could hit me and I'd still be with her nor would I care if she cheated on me.