By tough I mean like someone who can literally pack a punch. I am a black belter, but that doesn't mean I'll beat anyone who crosses me up, lol. I'm also sorta in some sort of military group and often put up a strict and poker-faced front. Being a girl, I know doing any of these isn't very ordinary especially if you're in your teen years, so yeah. I'm just wondering honestly, and a few opinions would be cool. And is there any way that I can make myself seem less like it? Not that I don't like what I do, I just don't want to scare people off.