How to comfortably begin oral sex with bf

[polemikos]

To give "good" oral sex, I find you really have to thoroughly enjoy what you're doing. If you're grossed out, nervous or too stuck in your head it's not going to be an enjoyable experience for either party involved. Maybe taking a romantic bath or shower together so you're both totally fresh down there, and then just going for it. Don't take it so seriously. Learn to laugh and communicate during. You're both up front with each other about your inexperience, so there's nothing to hide.

I couldn't have said it better. The communication part is paramount. Say what you like and don't be afraid to give direction like, higher or slower or not so hard... these are the directions that someone new needs to help satisfy their partner. And tell him to do the same for you. If you're lucky, before you know it you'll be having a toe curling orgasm that will change the landscape of sex forever.

[horndog]

It just takes practice. I live in the states too. If you need some extra practice before you try it on your BF just let me know, lol.