Hi all,

I'm in a bit of a mess. This morning my guy picked a fight for no reason. Later in my email I found he had sent me two pics of some man and he asked "Do you know this man?". I answered "No idea. Never seen him before." However later I remembered that 2 months ago someone I knew in another forum had friended me on Google+. I rarely use Google+ but this guy had asked advice about his girlfriend, who had left him, and I had advised him. I checked the pic and found that yes, the photos were of that guy. So clearly my guy noticed I was friends with this man (I have no other friends on Google+) and was jealous. There is nothing between me and this other man, and we have never talked on Google+. However, I don't want my guy to know I am on another forum since he is over jealous and has banned me from being there.

Anyway, my guy then sent me emails with photos of women in skimpy underwear saying "This is the kind of woman I really like". It hurt me and was so spiteful. I just said "Well go and find one then." He said "I will", and that was that. So we seem to have split.

I know it's bad to lie, but if he confronts me about this guy on Google+, is it plausable to I say that he just friended me out of the blue and that I accepted? Does it work that way on Google+? I am very unfamiliar with it but I'd just like to know. He has no reason to be jealous - I love him and am faithful to him. But I really don't want him to know I am on the other forum, or that I was advising that man about his girlfriend.