need some good advice

[clynn]

Geeze, I guess you'll only know once some time passes. Maybe cool it and then you can go out again after a while.

[bigbadbear]

thanks all. maybe i was reading her wrong and went to fast. first time every i listened to my heart rather than think with my brain. again, appreciate the feed back from all of you, i wish the outcome could have been in my favor cause i really felt she was "the one" but as a wise man once told me, it is better to have loved than never have loved at all. anyway, life is way too short so strike that one up to learning from experience.

[Tone]

Yeah man, good attitude to have. Chalk it up as a lesson learned.

[Late_vamp]

ouch , that must hurt the wallet ... still , love is love . altho i would advise against any type of crazy "in the moment " type of spending or saying ...i just hope you dint tell her you love her ... yet ... right?

[bigbadbear]

ouch to the heart not the wallet. if she said yes then i would have been the richest guy in the world. and no, i did not tell her i love her ....yet. i really like her for who she is even though i have only known her from work and work related hang outs. i also feel her son is a great kis too. she is one of the smarter girls i have talked to in a long time and actually has beliefs and opinions and can hold a conversation. i thought i was receiving all the correct signals that she may have felt the same. anyway, i guess this is where i can atleast write and have people like all of you to reply and chat with. once again, thanks all.

[whaywardj]

Too many people think the word "love" is a noun. It's, really, a verb.