3 years wasting my time! Read my full story!!

[Lilia]

And just how is this helping the Op? You didn't even bother to give HIM advice? O.o
Bloody pot.

Sometimes sympathy and compassion do more than advice can do.

[HeartIsAching]

Awww... how sweet.

And pointless.

[JasonSmithFree]

Thanks for all people who answers and also the people who wanted a shorter version (I understand). There are a lot of things that helps allot. But the problem is that I can't get her out of my head because,
1: she is in my class.
2: I have to let go 3 yeas of my life and it isn't that easy.
3: I still want to be her friend but because I told her my feelings our friendship changed awkwarldy.
4: I think all day of her, all night!

[Wakeup]

You don't have to continue thinking about her all day and all night. Just change the subject in your mind to something else. Something you like to do, start a new hobby and think about that.

You cling to this girl and its a total waste of your time and emotions. Think about THAT when she pops into your mind. Ignore her during class. If she asks you why you're ignoring her then tell her that you don't need another female friend... you have enough of those.

Now, stop whining about her and get on to day one of forgetting she exists.

[pcmaster]

Ofcourse you cant stop thinking about her so fast. It will come with time. Just use the advice and you will get out of this shit faster. You need a hooker, afterwards that girl will be nothing to you. Seriously have you ever kissed a girl or went on a date? You didnt lived these 3 years it wasnt life(True to life keep mashing forward
Like you got a passion for it. Life's an adventure just get out and explore ). Will take years for you to understand that this all was just childs play and you been silly, young and stupid to take this seriously. You did nothing with that girl that you cant do with other girls. Ofcourse you want to be with her because you like her. But being friends wont help to forget her. You need to make some real good friends so you will forget about her faster. It would help a lot. Bet you now feel lonely and think about her because she used to give you positive emotions when thinking about her. Seen milion guys like you. Everyone have been there. So what? Dream is over wake up, move on. Focus on having positive interactions with people. It will help you focus on life. Do you have friends you can go out with and have fun? Or share this story and be understood? If not then theres your actual problem to fix. Your feelings and state of mind pretty much reflect your social health. If you have friends then this is the right time to turn to them do something crazy together.