32 falling for a 17 y.o. girl

[dontaskme]

i see some people here mastered life so well, and are in such a harmony with what life and love means, that they just felt compelled to share their views by swearing at me and calling me names and thus proving that indeed they are more mature emotionally or mentally or whatever, so that they can advice the awful human being that i am. i thank them, for shoving their wisdom down my throat and making me think who's more sane, me or them.

btw, i broke up with her.

Now what, you actually expect me to sympathize with you? If you weren't an old perv who was willing to capitalize on a child's unfortunate state to begin with, then you wouldn't be placed on a spot where people will actually find your actions and intentions quite disgusting.

[lancelot1982]

whatever, throw it at me. im the garbage, it seems. so i'll take it.

[dontaskme]

im the garbage, it seems. so i'll take it.

Lol... At least you know who you are. I'll give you that.

[michelle23]

whatever, throw it at me. im the garbage, it seems. so i'll take it.

Well done for doing the right thing and ending it. Its easy to get wrapped up in a fairytale and pretend to yourself that if would somehow work or be okay when you are lonely or feeling desperate for some companionship but you have to be realistic and realize she is a v vulnerable, confused young girl who has been through a lot and is in no place emotionally or mentally to be in any sort of relationship right now.. perhaps you need help too in order to grow emotionally and get the things in life you want and deserve.

Btw i don't think your a predator or a perv. They target young vulnerable people on purpose and repetitively. I think you judt got caught up in this daydream and need to let it go now.

Ignore dontaskme.. shes the forum nutjob

[dontaskme]

Btw i don't think your a predator or a perv. They target young vulnerable people on purpose and repetitively. I think you judt got caught up in this daydream and need to let it go now.

Ignore dontaskme.. shes the forum nutjob

Perhaps you are the nut job for not seeing the OP for what he is. Last time I checked, a pervert is a corrupt person, and this guy falls under the category for corrupting a minor, having an on line relationship with a vulnerable girl who is in a fragile state, using as an excuse his emotional immaturity, which in my book also makes him a predator.

Unlike you, I don't have the tolerance for such people and if that makes me a nut case, then I don't know what you are.

[lancelot1982]

i get it already, you told me a buch a times, we split. wtf do you want me to do, we only just chatted stop making me into such a humongous monster :| physical attraction does happen, and i doubt u never felt an attraction for someone younger. she'll be 18 this year she looks perfectly grown up, stop spreading your malicious comments over something that didnt even happen, we never even met. you're making me into such a monster like if i had sex with a minor or something, it was just attraction and chat. like im the only one who ever felt attraction for a younger opposite sex. you're such a hypocryte. are you a frustrated old lady that just spreads hate around her cuz you're a lone and miserable and envy everybody else? i dont get you. or are you a guy whos just a psycho. you've been throwing words at me so much that i really cant see why you're calling me a perv or nut or whatever, i did nothing but talk to her. you;re a loonatic. really. you should get checked into a mental hospital or something, i wouldnt want to deal with ppl like you in the free, that have nothing but hateful and insulting words to throw around, i dont care what your excuse is. so just put a sock on it, you really got on my nerve. you stupid lame-ass fck excuse for a human being.

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you're the one giving lessons to me dontaskme? take a look at yourself first. and no, i did not ask you. so do as your name implies, and shush.

[dontaskme]

i get it already, you told me a buch a times, we split. wtf do you want me to do, we only just chatted stop making me into such a humongous monster :| physical attraction does happen, and i doubt u never felt an attraction for someone younger. she'll be 18 this year she looks perfectly grown up, stop spreading your malicious comments over something that didnt even happen, we never even met. you're making me into such a monster like if i had sex with a minor or something, it was just attraction and chat. like im the only one who ever felt attraction for a younger opposite sex. you're such a hypocryte. are you a frustrated old lady that just spreads hate around her cuz you're a lone and miserable and envy everybody else? i dont get you. or are you a guy whos just a psycho. you've been throwing words at me so much that i really cant see why you're calling me a perv or nut or whatever, i did nothing but talk to her. you;re a loonatic. really. you should get checked into a mental hospital or something, i wouldnt want to deal with ppl like you in the free, that have nothing but hateful and insulting words to throw around, i dont care what your excuse is. so just put a sock on it, you really got on my nerve. you stupid lame-ass fck excuse for a human being.

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you're the one giving lessons to me dontaskme? take a look at yourself first. and no, i did not ask you. so do as your name implies, and shush.

Lol... FYI, I'm younger than you and would never in my mind chat on line with a 17 y/o boy so I'm not being hypocritical. Are you kidding me? You are 32 years old... You really think it was harmless to chat and have an on line relationship with a susceptible minor and your excuse being that you are emotionally immature?! You go figure man. You are not even close to being innocent.

And you post on a public forum... be prepared to take some backlash for your behavior. If you wanted to keep your escapades private, don't post it to the public... But then maybe, only maybe, you'll do better posting it on Facebook so your family and friends can find out what you have been up to.

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And if you were just chatting innocently, why the need to break up??

[lancelot1982]

dontaskme, would you stop commenting, its like you're speaking just to hear yourself speaking.
enough is enough, i think you aggressed me enough with your accusations and bad words,
and i dont need it. i told you it was over, why the f do you still insist on it? whats wrong with you?
just shut up and dont provoke me anymore.

[pcmaster]

Ooo the rage is building !

Relax, lancelot, no one is reading her posts.

[dontaskme]

Ooo the rage is building !

Relax, lancelot, no one is reading her posts.

How do you know? Are you a fortune teller? Wait... I can see you on a crystal ball... You are not a man... but a woman wearing a gypsy outfit!

[michelle23]

Dontaskme: you come across as someone who is just angry and coming here to vent your own emotional garbage. OP came here for advice and took the advice he got. He doesn't need to be attacked 100 times. You made your point. Give it a rest

[dontaskme]

Dontaskme: you come across as someone who is just angry and coming here to vent your own emotional garbage. OP came here for advice and took the advice he got. He doesn't need to be attacked 100 times. You made your point. Give it a rest

Really...??? If you only knew how hard I lol'ed at your response.

I'm not even close to being angry. My approach is certainly different than yours, doesn't mean I'm angry or have the need to vent.

If I needed to vent, I have a supportive father, mother, siblings, boyfriend and friends who are all ears. I certainly don't need a forum to vent out to. FYI, I don't have any emotional garbage, but maybe you do?

BTW, if you noticed, which I didn't think you did because you seem to have a selective attention or maybe even attention deficit, I don't have any issues expressing myself if need be and I only select posts that I feel strongly about. Some posts, I ignore and some I was and am pretty pleasant about... Surprise