Should I ask my boyfriends guy best friend if he's cheating?

[namemyname]

You're all over the place, Claire.

If you are this unstable with us, then I'm sure you are with him. Guys can sniff crazy like bad perfume.

So, unless you are mega-watt hot, like 11 out of 10 hot, you better slow your roll, homes, because guys tire of the psycho chick pretty quickly.

[searock]

You're all over the place, Claire.

If you are this unstable with us, then I'm sure you are with him. Guys can sniff crazy like bad perfume.

So, unless you are mega-watt hot, like 11 out of 10 hot, you better slow your roll, homes, because guys tire of the psycho chick pretty quickly.

Eh... I'd like to think that a decent guy wouldn't care about how hot a girl is, if she's psychologically unstable he still wouldn't want her to be his girlfriend. Emphasis on decent guy.

And it's not just guys who don't want to be with crazy people, it's also girls.

[michelle23]

can someone give me the full story please. what reasons do you have to be suspicious? if this relationship is really stressful and you have trust issues-you should walk away. dont ask his friends anything. hire a private investigator before you even think about talking to his friends

[clairedunham]

Whatever.....

[clairedunham]

You're all over the place, Claire.

If you are this unstable with us, then I'm sure you are with him. Guys can sniff crazy like bad perfume.

So, unless you are mega-watt hot, like 11 out of 10 hot, you better slow your roll, homes, because guys tire of the psycho chick pretty quickly.

I can imagine how ****in "deep" your r/s must be. Probably why you get dumped and are oblivious to everything. Yea, I have mental problems but I'm actually perfectly rational answering and analyzing your post am I? He told me he loved me and I don't understand how you can tell a person you want to spend their lives with them and then fall out of love with them. Yea we all hear I love you from billions of people but this r/s was different. Nothing shallow like with what you must have. I completely blame myself for my behavior but he does don't have the right to cheat (if he is cheating). I get worried in the head because what if he slipped? And we haven't had sex in 8 months and prior to that when we weren't so bad we weren't having sex because we didn't have anywhere to do it nor the money but we still stuck around. If we did live together it would be a ****kk fest. You can learn a little thing or 2 about our friendship and love besides the bullshit that's going on.

[namemyname]

I can imagine how ****in "deep" your r/s must be. Probably why you get dumped and are oblivious to everything. Yea, I have mental problems but I'm actually perfectly rational answering and analyzing your post am I? He told me he loved me and I don't understand how you can tell a person you want to spend their lives with them and then fall out of love with them. Yea we all hear I love you from billions of people but this r/s was different. Nothing shallow like with what you must have. I completely blame myself for my behavior but he does don't have the right to cheat (if he is cheating). I get worried in the head because what if he slipped? And we haven't had sex in 8 months and prior to that when we weren't so bad we weren't having sex because we didn't have anywhere to do it nor the money but we still stuck around. If we did live together it would be a ****kk fest. You can learn a little thing or 2 about our friendship and love besides the bullshit that's going on.

WHOA.

Seek professional help, Claire. You seriously need it.

[namemyname]

Eh... I'd like to think that a decent guy wouldn't care about how hot a girl is, if she's psychologically unstable he still wouldn't want her to be his girlfriend. Emphasis on decent guy.

And it's not just guys who don't want to be with crazy people, it's also girls.

I was being glib, actually, though I know some guys will stay with crazy girls ONLY because they're hot. But, you're right, that usually is a short-term thing.

[clairedunham]

WHOA.

Seek professional help, Claire. You seriously need it.

Go **** yourself

[lalalita]

This is hilarious.

[namemyname]

Go **** yourself

Claire, dear, do you realize all of your ascerbic outbursts here just confirm how emotionally unstable you truly are? Your reactions to advice are rather OTT, no?

And, thanks. It is the time of the afternoon I like to go masturbate, so I think I'll take your advice and go "eff" myself.

Be back in 7 minutes.

[michelle23]

i guess noones gonna answer my qs.. cant help you then sorry