will arsenic cure my friends crush on the stupidest guy in town?

[misombra]

my other friends were ten times more dramatic and stupid than my current friend, who avoided one text message and one voice message today. one of them was a total alcoholic whore, the other one was completely insane in the membrane. the other was very passive aggressive, and it drove me crazy.

i don't go looking for more friends because i don't really want any friends. i've become extremely selective in the people i let into my world.

i don't know why she would be upset with me. i never brought the guy up. i didn't ever have to. i was nice to him when i saw him, i don't bad mouth him in front of her, so whatever.

mikey always tells me this quote, "a stupid friend is more dangerous than a cunning enemy."

[Mish]

i don't go looking for more friends because i don't really want any friends. i've become extremely selective in the people i let into my world.

Why not get a couple of new friends you spend time with casually which you don't need to let into your world but can still reap the benefits of reciprication and being in their company? You could do it as easily as simply pursuing a hobby on a bigger than private level.

This is something from Cholrine which I found very useful:

"Friends often have something in common, and that makes for a friendship. Like if we both enjoy fishing. We are friends because of our fishing hobby, but also....our hobby itself is what keeps the friendship going. Take the hobby away, and we might not be friends anymore."

[vashti]

I'll be your friend, misombra. Our hobby can be pissing off Mish.

[misombra]

I'll be your friend, misombra. Our hobby can be pissing off Mish.

aaaaawwwww vashhhh that is so sweet. i really wish you lived closer cause i think we would be great friends.

plus, take away pissing off mish, we'd STILL be great friends.

[vashti]

Okay, but can we at least still take his money?

[misombra]

of course. but i think if we just tell him he's right all the time he'll just give it to us.


[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4fCbqjWiek"]YouTube - Spinal Tap - Gimme Some Money[/ame]

[misombra]

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jyjxb9m5edI&feature=related"]YouTube - Spinal Tap - (Listen to the) Flower People[/ame]

[Mish]

of course. but i think if we just tell him he's right all the time he'll just give it to us.

I probably will too

[Gigabitch]

of course. but i think if we just tell him he's right all the time we'll choke to death on our own words.

Fixed your post.

Anyway, she doesn't need new friends because she has US. Plus, she knows I'm only an hour away in case she ever needs help moving. Or moving a body.

[squirrley]

Darn right I will be your friend to Mis!!! I guess the coolest thing about this place is that you DO make friends in a sorta cool way ya know! Ive developed many friendships that have extended outside of the forum and have met them hell even dated and screwed one! Gotta love this place!

[misombra]

so i think my friend is beginning to see the light. yesterday was the first day that the guy didn't call her a million times and beg her to go to his house.

she's beginning to see how clingy he is, and how she's getting far too involved with somebody she doesn't know anything about or what a relationship from.

also they had a very specific agreement to keep their relationship on the down low. she told me and her mom. he told his ex-wife, sister (the two very people that were absolutely not supposed to know), who knows who else he told. he said he was "seeing" her.

omg i hope he is gone forever.

[Gigabitch]

Poor girl, she is going to be so incredibly mortified when she sees this clearly, as it sounds like she's starting to do. She's gonna need a double shot of no me acuerdas to get right again.

[squirrley]

Misombra now THAT is a Christmas wish Im hoping for you and her!