Please make this all good soon. She apologized. You said your piece. Now forgive each other completely.
Please make this all good soon. She apologized. You said your piece. Now forgive each other completely.
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Glad you worked it all out, then.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I was afraid you were going to break up with her.
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To tell you the truth, had she stuck with what she said in her e-mail...I was seriously considering it. Because I found what she said to be so ridiculous and just...ridiculous!
But I figured, if she really meant all that, then it would've been time to part ways. I have a pretty low tolerance for bullshit (which is why I'm getting the fúck out of Lawton.)
But the boobies......
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Bah **** the brain juice section. If I can't see it, it doesn't deserve my advice and comfort.
Request that you get added to it, I'm sure LA would give you access.
Anyway, I don't post in there often, but sometimes I don't want the random dumb shits trying to advise me on things they don't know anything about.
Can you imagine if I had to repost everything I went through with Amy up until this point? Every single time I wanted to post an issue?
Shit, I probably wouldn't bother at all.
Fras, if you learn anything from this past weekend, you've grown within yourself and within the relationship. Youre learning what you can and cant tolerate. A relationship is meant to grow and learn. Its just another class you two took together. I think its crucial when one partner is starting to feel negative about something, its time to speak up. You cant let things fester, it only snowballs.
This was a good learning experience for both of you. Look at this as a positive experience. These are the things which will bring a relationship closer and stronger. It sucks we go through them, but it always turns out no matter what happens. Just always keep in the back of your mind your future and what is you may want down the road. Things have a way of working themselves out somehow.![]()
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
This past weekend, Amy came to stay with me.
On Saturday night, before we went to see a movie, she told me she has to go "run some errands". Though, later that night she told me she just had to get out of the house away from the hustle and bustle of my house, and simply went for a drive.
I saw this as a step in the right direction.
I had absolutely no problem with her actions, I could kinda tell she wanted to be alone, so I didn't try to pry into what she was doing, or where she was going.
I think we're making progress in resolving some of the issues I posted earlier in this thread.
of course you are. done, done, and on to the next one. obstacle that is. boy is life full of those. but letting each other have your own time is nice. that will be necessary when you live together, as you'll annoy the shit out of each other after a while.
i usually leave and then want to come home like, five minutes later anyway lol.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
Yay for you! Maybe since she has done this, she will feel better about it when YOU need a break.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Driving around Oklahoma. Hmmm. I agree with Donut Boy.
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