Originally Posted by
qwerty123
Hmmm, Its possible to have children young and them have disabilities. The way medicine has progressed, i really dont think it is that unsafe or risky to have them late 30's.
Sorry, I missed your post qwerty.
Okay, I'll use an analogy for this. There is always a risk of a person being hit by a car while crossing the road. Many people die crossing the road every year and it's an inescapable fact that this will continue to happen. But I come from the perspective that the risk of you getting hit by a car while crossing the road dramatically decreases if you look both ways to make sure no cars are there. It doesn't eliminate the risk completely, but reduces it substantially. Some people will say, it's still possible to get hit by a car even if you look both ways, so why bother, if you're bound to get hit then you will get hit, it's in the hands of God so look both ways or don't look both ways it's still going to happen? Let's just say that, that's not a point of view I subscribe to. I prefer to take all necessary precautions.
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