Hello to all,
I'll make it short.
My bf and I have been together for 3 years. 2 years ago I met this guy at work.. He liked me and I guess I liked the attention. We never went beyond sending each other short flirty emails "you look nice today" "How come you didn't come to work? I missed you" bla bla... He knew I had a bf and I told him I couldn't hang out because I was happy with my bf and there was no reason for us to hang out. I told him I only wanted to be friends and he was okay with it but kept trying to flirt with me- I told him we couldn't talk anymore and we haven't ever since then...(I briefly talked to my bf about it but didn't tell him I flirted too) but today I was deleting old emails and came across one that reminded me of how stupid I was to lead someone on while in a relationship with my boyfriend. I regret doing this and feel guilty about it even though it never went beyond words (non sexual but flirty)
Sometimes I feel like talking to my bf about it because it still bothers me. I don't want to hide anything from him and wouldn't like for him to find out through someone else. I don't think he would since I know this guy is over it and doesn't seem to care anymore but who knows. I know I was wrong. I'm glad I was smart enough to end this before it got any further but I feel stupid for having talked to this guy while in a relationship with the most amazing guy in my life. At the time this happened my bf and I were living in different cities and we weren't as close as now but there's no excuse.