Why would you want to be this mans' rebound? He's still in love with his wife. Just because he's divorced it doesn't mean he won't see his kids regularily. Why is he letting it get so long between visits with them that "he misses them?"
Google "rebound relationship" and read up on what will probably happen to you if you get involved further with this man. Let him process his breakup and allow him to get to the point of being at least somewhat indifferent emotionally to his wife and has regular visitation schedule with the kids in place before you proceed. (you'll likely not do anything except what you want to do whether it's in your own best interests or not but) that's my advice.
Last edited by Wakeup; 19-07-11 at 12:17 AM.
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