Hey!
First of all: My grammar fails, I know. but I believe you will understand what im saying
FOR EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO READ THE WHOLE STORY, THE FINAL PROBEM CAN BE FOUND IN DOWN RIGHT AFTER THE RED ARROW --->
I'm 17 years old boy from sweden. and no, I'm not a nerd who needs always help with the girls. but this one is hard, and I don't wanna fail this one.
SO! I came here because I need help with one girl issue. I'm gonna call her here: Catie to hide her identity.
So Me and Catie we had something going on more than 2 years ago. it lasted for 4months ( yes, we were maybe too young. just turned 15 and stuff.)
and then after that I still had her on my mind for almost a 6months.. I met and dated several girls during that time but always decided to not to continue dating because they didn't make me feel that way the Catie made me feel.
Then the Catie started to date one guy. and I slowly got her off from my mind.. and they dated for about 1 year and then they broke up.
after that she and I started to chat more again and so on, and slowly the same old feeling returned on me.
after few months I decided to tell her how I feel about her, and she was so glad to hear that and told me that she might me interested of me aswell, but shes not ready yeat for any relantionships etc. so we decided to stay friends and see what time brings us. after 1 month I asked again and I actually knew the answer. shes still not ready for anything. she wants to be single. and so we decided to stop this thing that we had going on.
and during last months we have closened again bit. and last weekend I was at our summer cabin with my brothers and their girlfriends and my dad and his girlfriend and her parents. and so the old peapole asked that where my girlfriend is, after all everyone else had someone with them. so I texted to catie that would she like to come to our summer cabin for a crab party ( yeh raditional party we have every year ) and WOW she promised to come! we had drinked alcohol already but one of my brothers was still clear enough to drive a car. so we went to pick Catie up!
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We had a great night with my family and Catie. Even tough I drinked myself way too much alcohol. I drinked about 1-2 bottles of vodka and alots of beer. so I don't acutally remember some parts of the night.. so I'm gonna skip the night. At about 2am Catie wanted to go to swim. and I was like cmon don't you go ( the shore was like 500m away from our cabin) and so I went there with her. and we took a naked swim together in the sea. when we were coming back from the shore. we walked in a gravel path, I don't remember exactly why I went down and started to lay on my back and watch the stars, and tripped Catie to lay right next to me. we talked about something.. and then she rolled on top of me and in just few seconds we started to kiss. and it didn't take long untill we both undressed each other and then we had sex on a gravel path/road whatever it is It was a great experiement..
So now, I don't know whats going on... we have been texting and stuff after that.. but I don't know did she do it because she likes me or because she was drunk aswell..
What should I do? shes really shy person to talk of anything that has something to do with her feelings etc. so I don't know how I should approach her.
Please someone, cheer me up! I need help in this situation. I like her, and we both know that we are really similar and we could really make the relationship work! but I don't just know how I take this thing to the next level now. is she ready yet? she wasnt few months ago..
Thank you already, I appreciate everyone who even read this thread!
and please reply! if you have ANY ideas.