Sex drives issues.

[Niccitine]

Some of you might have seen my previous post in another forum about spoiling my guy sexually. I now know that he's quite sexually satisfied and would like me to spoil him in other ways. Only problem is I'm not satisfied with how often we have sex, I want it more often than he does.. I also can't seem to get him to grasp the concept of foreplay or cunnilingus... what the hell do I do to change this?

Help please? Thanky

[vashti]

His sex drive is what it is. Ultimately, you will have to accept him this way, or move on. (same goes for no foreplay/oral.)

I should point out that you sound relatively sexually aggressive (based on your other thread), and not all males like that.... it can be intimidating. You might want to try toning it down a bit, and see if it helps with the frequency.

[sookie6]

What about previous partners if you've had any...how did you feel about the sexual chemistry...

[Niccitine]

better chemistry... and they try harder to please me...

[sookie6]

Oops I don't think this guy is right for you...you can't change someone's sex drive, it's hard work with poor results and only creates resentment.

What attracted you in the guy...in the first place?

PS: I just think it's funny how you are progressing self development wise on these posts...I like the spirit!

[WICKED THOUGHTS]

haha viagra baby! Nah, i dunno. The best thing.. is just get urself of for d time being and dnt give him some. Let him suffer a bit. hahaha And when he cant take it no more.. Well u get d point. lol

[Niccitine]

PS: I just think it's funny how you are progressing self development wise on these posts...I like the spirit!

that's how I roll *crosses arms and nods head*

I was in a bad state when I met him and he's the only guy that has ever managed to deal with my ups and downs and general high maintenance. Now after two years I'm beginning to realise that he may need more than a sparkling personality to keep me in love... but I don't want to dump him... I reeeally don't

haha viagra baby! Nah, i dunno. The best thing.. is just get urself of for d time being and dnt give him some. Let him suffer a bit. hahaha And when he cant take it no more.. Well u get d point. lol

I'm thinking of trying that, already bought a great rampant rabbit to keep me under control while he suffers... hope it works... might try sneaking viagra into his beer or something..

[Niccitine]

I have one big problem though... I struggle to go for a day without sex...