Originally Posted by
angxm
i'm too easy to depend on?! what's that about!?
I have feelings for her, but she gives me the cold shoulder to avoid feeling anything herself. Do i act like a jerk? is that what women want?
It means:
- She was feeling horny & in the mood one night..
- The two of you did things..
- Next morning she wasn't that horny or in the mood anymore because now she was satisfied..
- She considered being in a relationship with you but voted against it in her mind for some reason (not attractive enough.., the way you dress.., your job.., your habits.., etc)
- That caused her to feel bad and regret what happened.., but now she had to deal with the situation..
- On top of a cold & distant act.., she needed a "reason" to tell you.., but didn't want to hurt your feelings..
- All she could come up with was the fact that you're a nice guy (which wasn't the real reason.., just something she told you so she wouldn't have to tell you "I just don't find you cute or hot.., but I was horny that night.., I'm not anymore.., and under normal conditions that would've never happend.., so I can't really be in a relationship with you.., sorry")
Women don't want a jerk.., don't take her words too "litterally"..
Just be happy you got to enjoy the fruits of sexual tension.., when you move on emotionally to someone else.., I wouldn't be surprised if that tension builds up again inside her and something like this takes place again.. But don't drown yourself in a pool of unrealistic fantasy & hope.. It's not going to happen.., just let it go.., and move on..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.