Hey everyone. I'm kind of new but I didn't really have anywhere to turn to figure this out. It's a pretty unique situation (from what I can tell) and I hope someone can help me decode what's happening here. I hardly even know where to start.
I'm 20, a male, and I'm in college. Me and one girl, who I think is nice and cute, kind of recently just hit it off last week. We're in the same class. We're not dating (yet, I guess) but this past Wednesday she said her parents are buying her a house and she wants me to live with her. That's when it got weird for me. We've been in the class for a semester (this being the last week) and we've only talked casually once or twice. Then on Wednesday she asks me this. I told her it would be financially smarter to get a house (which I believe but things were moving way too fast so I was just trying to slow her down). She doesn't want an apartment.
Now today in class she fixed my collar and I politely say "thank you." I told her I have a knot in my neck and asked if she knew any massage therapy (jokingly) and she started massaging my neck IN CLASS, which was really weird. Then I signal her to stop. Then she traces her finger along my back. Now I'm getting REALLY weirded out. We talked after class (casually, I didn't bring up the massaging or anything) and she followed me around all day. She kept hinting at people that we were going out and I was like, "wtf is going on?"
As we talked, I learned this is her first semester at the college but she already has her bachellor's (she's 22). She just moved here for college after graduating (which I have no reason why she's going to a community college now) and she just ended her relationship (in which she was engaged for 3 years).
So here I am a confused college kid. I'm happy that it's happening since I think she's really cute and nice, but i'm nervous and kind of stressed about it. What's going on here? I feel like I'm in an anime.