I have been going out with a guy for about 4 months now. I recently found out that he has been going out with another girl too. When i found out, i told myself that i would not get involved with him anymore and that we would be strictly friends. It may look like he's just a player who wants to date a lot of girls but he is a really good guy and is upset at the situation too. He really doesn't know who to choose. However, i've been crushing on him for so long that i can't get over him.
BTW, the other girl has a boyfriend. All his friends are telling him to pick me. If both of those factors aren't enough to convince him then that is a huge red flag for me.
He's still deciding which girl to choose but regardless of whoever he chooses, i still shouldn't get involved with him...right?
Our Sadie Hawkins dance is coming up. His friends are insisting that i ask him but i would feel too weird asking him to a dance because he likes another girl. His friends say that he expects me to ask him but i really don't know if that's a good idea.
Should i confront him and tell him that it's never going to work because i'll always know that he had to pick between me and another girl so he should just pick the other girl? I don't want to have this talk because i dont want things to become awkward. I tried ignoring him but it's hard because despite everything, i don't want him to stop liking me...