My boyfriend is friends with his ex. I can accept this, and have. What I cannot deal with is me being around her. It's probably immature of me, but her presence is just a reminder to me of what they once had. Things would be better all around if I didn't feel this way and I wish I didn't.
She has asked my boyfriend on a few occasions why I no longer get together with them (my boyfriend, her, and her fiance). He finally told her the truth that I'm uncomfortable being around her, knowing the past that they have shared.
A few days later I receive a message from her saying she doesn't like this awkwardness, she wants to be friends. She even almost apologized for her relationship she had with my boyfriend (which I don't quite understand). She also thought I disliked her, which wasn't true. It was a friendly message all around.
I replied saying something along the lines of, "Please don't think I dislike you. This has nothing to do with you as a person - it's my issue."
Now she's telling my boyfriend online that I evidently hate her. Apparently my "intentions" may be different, but my "actions" indicate I hate her.
How am I supposed to deal with such a complete disregard for what I said - admitting it's my problem - and then having someone being so dramatic and judgmental by concluding I "hate" her?
Am I wrong?