I told my girlfriend (of about four months) that I thought she was treating me badly and ignoring me. I get the feeling she has flipped out and keeping her distance, for what reason I don't know.
She came back to tell me she feels Im smothering her (which isn't true and most of the times we meet are her idea anyhow).
In a few days I won't have seen her for about five weeks. She is still ignoring me.
I trust her completely, that what she says is true, that she loves me and wants to fix this, I also don't believe she is seeing someone else. She wanted time initially to focus on some work issues. Now those are complete, she still isn't talking.
But right now Im stuck with a girlfriend who isn't talking to me who I don't know even if she feels the same about the relationship as I do anymore as she can make time for everything else but me.
Maybe she's waiting on a big present for an apology?
Im still holding out hope there's some kind of rational explanation - that maybe she's under so much stress that she doesn't want to ruin the relationship by having me in her life and have her snap at me and me say goodbye.
Im thinking in a few days, of seeing one of her friends (who I also know quite well) just to see what's happening.
I would go round my girlfriends house but she doesn't know her address. I know where her parents live though.
Seeing her friend I know is risky. But it really is last chance for me because I can't do this any longer.
What do you guys suggest? Given that she isn't talking to me and isn't seeing me, what should I do? Forget the negative comments for now, we'll save that until I actually know something.