Originally Posted by
lunderscoreids
I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 and a half years. We have had problems in the past and i dont fully trust him anymore. Im slowly trusting him again. I checked his phone the other day for "a piece of mind" and i find out he is still texting this girl he knew from years ago. Yet the texts are not sexual, he is planning to hang out with her. And its obvious that she is in to him. Yet there is no mention of he is seeing someone and it seems as if he is just fueling the fire. I brought it up last time we got into a fight and he said she was not someone he would do anything with, and he left it there for me to find. Why is he doing this? Is it an ego boost? Im worried because she is the one who starts the texting, but he doesnt stop, and he is hiding it from me. This doesnt make me want to trust him more and i feel like im being emotionally cheated on. Should i worry about this or just ignore it? Because it seems nothing ever comes of it but then again we dont live together thus i dont know..
Help?