Originally Posted by
Cavs12
Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?
Yes. She's told you outright that she doesn't have time for you so stop paying for your dates and letting her string you along. She's having other men stay over at her house and telling you about it so take her at face value... someone that doesn't have time for a relationship but makes time for this other guy at work. Ya see?
Stop spending your money on her and if you want to keep seeing her then do it just for the sex. Wear a rubber. Me? I'd just stop seeing her altogether and let the guy at work have her... she's fluff.
Oh.. and don't be her "friend." You'll end up being her male girlfriend who pays for her shit.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion