Hey everyone,

I'm new to these forums & could really use some advise

Me & my fianc� split about 2 months ago after becoming emotionally unattached, not because we stopped loving each other but because off the stresses of moving to a new country together & her finding it real hard to get permanent work.

After the split I tried to see her as much as possible, she was having a very hard time & I still loved her & wanted her back! I no this was the wrong thing to do but I wanted to be there & help her. Eventually I suggested a month apart with no contact as she was in no place to get back in a relationship. She now has herself a decent job & things must be better for her!

The month of no contact is up in 2 weeks & I need to no what to do. Do I contact her? Do I wait for her to contact me? I'm not even sure I want to contact her only because i want her back & if she doesn't have the same feelings It will break my heart again!

Please any advice is warmly welcomed as my head has been spinning for the past 2 wks.

Thanx in advance