What is wrong with you that you can't just stop your lovelorn thoughts of her. It will take time but when you know someone doesn't want you the way you want them (like you said she doesn't want you) then its quite possible to turn off your feelings of admiration. After all, Who TF wants to be with someone that doesn't view you with lust, admiration, infatuation and with the possibility of you being together as friends and lovers in a committed relationship.
ACCEPTANCE is a healing action word. ACCEPT that you're like her brother ~ someone she has NO SEXUAL OR ROMANTIC interest in and you'll soon enough stop these wanton thoughts for her.
Step out of your comfort zone and start talking to a girl that is not your friend in "the group" and ask her out before she puts you on the friend ladder and you end up yet again being thought of like her brother.
Last edited by Wakeup; 26-05-14 at 11:57 PM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion