I was great friends with this guy for about 6 months, and then we got together (physically) about 6 months ago and started a committed relationship 2 months ago.
He's been great with pretty much everything EXCEPT!! He has a friend who is a girl, who I have also been friends with in the past. They have slept together on and off for the past year up until the point where we got into a relationship (2 months ago). Basically, lately, I have decided to not be friends with her anymore because of the way she was treating some of our other friends and acquaintances.
Boyfriend is still friends with her, which makes me feel uncomfortable and he has lied to me about doing things with her twice now. The first time, he took some of her stuff over to her apartment when she moved. He told me about it the next day, but not when I called him at the time. On Saturday, she called him @ 5am because her car battery died and she needed a jump. The new guy that she's seeing was there with her, too. He told me about this last night. I would not have been mad about either of these things if he had just told me at the time.
He knows that I feel uncomfortable with him being friends with her...Not necessarily because she's a bad person. I just think nothing good comes out of that friendship for our relationship.
Him not telling me these things until afterward makes me feel as if something is going on.
I am not the kind of girl to tell him to just not talk to her, even though he has said he would, but I do not know what else to do! The idea of him talking to her sets my heart to racing.
I'm sure a ton of people have been through this, so I'm looking for some advice.
I love him so much and he really is an amazing guy. We are so well suited for each other and ALL of our other mutual friends have been so happy that we finally got together.
I'm not the best at story telling, so if anything confuses you, please let me know, and I'll do my best to explain :-)