Hi guys! Could you please help me? I need an advice from males, especially. I come from a poor country and in order to have some more money we have to emigrate to other countries (I'm from the EU). There was a guy in my workplace that tried to approach me for almost 2 months but I didn't give him a chance because I had a boyfriend back then. I kind of fell in love with him, I don't know what that was, but then, suddenly, he went away as his contract has ended. I asked him angrily through social media why did he try to approach me when he knew he was going away. He wrote that he feels strange and said that he thought seriously. I broke up with my boyfriend with whom I was for a very long time, we argued and stuff, partly because of that guy. And a couple months later I came back to my country and appeared at the restaurant in his town (I spied him on social media) as I wanted just to get to know him and see what happens. The moment he saw me he yelled at me, I started running at the restaurant all in shock, tried to talk to him, I even wrote sth on my handkerchief and I tried to give it to him, I don't know why I did this, I freaked out, I asked him if he really is alright then. He ignored me so I went away. Ok, shit happens. But. then I heard rumors at my work that I'm cheating on my boyfriend, that I came for a hook up and that I'm a real slut. I know it was stupid of me, but what do you think about this guy, why did he do this, was it as that inappropriate of me? Did I really make a slut in his eyes of me? Am I as that a big idiot? How should I behave in this situation, the rumors are horrible and people believe them.