I'm normally not the kind of person to draw advantage from love forums, but I really need some serious guidance, and I hate my parents reaction when I tell them about whom with, why and how I'm in love. So this was the best alternative, since I don't have any close friends, due to me just moving and changing schools.
Well, actually me moving is an important factor of my problem. You see, I've been living in this new city for about 8 months or so, and the 6 of these I've been training karate for the first time in 6 years (I've been training 2½ years earlier in my life). Now, sorry for not getting directly to the core of the problem, but it's coming now. On the team on which I train there's a girl, whom I think to be extremely beautiful, and to say it as it is, I'm in love, very much in love. But as wonderful being in love is, it always brings with it complications and problems, and this is of course no exception. First of all, I'm 17 and she's 14 (as far as I know there's about 3 years and a month between us) which is a remarkable difference being in this age, secondly I've never been in a relationship before, which makes totally blank as to how to deal with this and thirdly (this is directed to the girls) I have no idea as to how I'm reading whether this girl is interested in me or not. Often, when we're talking, it quickly turns into stun silence, in the awkward kind of way, which among other things is caused by my brain not working well, when I'm talking to someone I'm in love with.
The thing is, I REALLY am in love, and I need some help as whether or not the age distinction is a problem, how to read her, how the hell I get rid of this stun silence that happens when I'm talking to her and especially how I can pull meself together, and get meself to ask her out or something instead of just sitting here and being pathetic.
Thank you all VERY MUCH.
P.S. Sorry if my english isn't too good, I'm danish.
Great Regards
Joda